Work with me

Pleasure is not a luxury, it's a lifeline.

Working together is a very intimate and personal journey.

It begins with slowing down, tuning in, building rapport and choosing the right path forward for you.

Whether you’re seeking erotic healing, ease, safety and confidence in your body, or a deeper connection in a relationship, this work will meet you where you are and invite something new to unfold. Something life changing. It's for the person for whom this work is everything. The one who has reached a point where nothing else will do. The one who knows: this part of me is not optional anymore.

Whether you’re a CEO longing to feel again, an adult virgin carrying a lifetime of longing, someone with neurodivergence seeking structure and depth, or a trauma survivor learning to trust your body, this programme is designed to meet you exactly where you are.

This is the invitation to reclaim your erotic life, and with it, the rest of your life.

All new clients begin with a consultation package. At th end, you’ll be guided into the coaching journey or retreat that best fits your needs.

How to Work With Me

1: The Consultation Package
A gentle, warm beginning that offers clarity and direction.

Your consultation package includes:

• A short ice-breaker call to meet and answer any questions ahead of the consultation.

• A full online consultation session to explore your desires, challenges, and goals, and an experience of the somatic process.

• Personal guidance on what’s holding you back and how to move forward

• A clear recommendation for your next step

If you commit to continuing within five days of the session, the consultation fee is credited toward your coaching journey or retreat.

2: Choose Your Path
Based on your consultation, you’ll be invited into one of the following:

• A Private Online Coaching Program. For those who want structure, depth and need time to integrate from home. Includes somatic practices, on-demand learning, tailored guidance, and high-level support and a two day retreat in London, UK.

• A Private In-Person Solo Retreat - A six-day, immersive experience in a private premium sanctuary. For those ready for deep, embodied change in an intimate and transformational setting.

This Is Deep Work (and it's not suitable for everyone)

I specialise in transformative coaching experiences for individuals who are truly ready to change this area of their lives.
This isn’t casual. It’s not about one-off sessions. And it’s not a quick fix.

Working with me means commitment. It means showing up for the version of you that’s been waiting just beneath the surface. It means saying yes to a life where intimacy, pleasure and presence are no longer afterthoughts.

This work is exclusive, personal, and highly tailored. It requires time, energy, and financial investment, because what you receive in return is profound, embodied change that ripples into and rewards you in every area of your life.

If you’re looking for something light, cheap or occasional, this may not be the space for you. But if you’re ready to finally give this part of yourself what it truly deserves, I would be honoured to work with you.

And, you?

You’ve built a brilliant life, but behind closed doors, in quiet moments, there’s a lingering ache. You feel it in your chest, in your pelvis, in the absence of sensation. A kind of not-quite-living.

Maybe you’ve carried this for years - a numbness, a confusion around desire, an absence of deep connection.
You’re high-functioning, high-achieving, even highly admired.

But behind the public façade, there’s grief for the absence of pleasure, vitality and intimacy that lies unfulfilled. This is for those who can no longer pretend this isn’t the missing piece. The ones who feel, quietly and fiercely, that this part of their life matters now more than ever.

I work with:

Top-tier achievers, exhausted from performing successfully while feeling empty in intimacy.
Adult virgins and late bloomers, ready to begin, with expert, trauma-informed support.
Neurodivergent individuals, who thrive with personalised structure, deep clarity, and compassionate pacing.
Men, women and non-binary persons or all sexual orientations who have long-term struggles: numbness, premature ejaculation, erectile or orgasmic difficulty. Shame that won’t shift.
Those whose trauma made them disconnect from their bodies, and who are finally ready to come home.

If this part of your life feels like the thing everything else has been circling around, you’re in the right place.

What Clients Say

"Aisha made it clear from the moment we began working together that she always holds her clients in the highest positive regard and it is something that you truly feel in every session. It is testament to the space that Aisha holds that I felt able to work through a particular issue that I had been carrying alone and that had been causing me upset, shame and holding me back in life for as long as I can remember."

"I have just completed a program with Aisha. I'm feeling empowered and more determined than ever to live a life of joy, of pleasure and one in which I prioritise my own needs fully for perhaps the first time. Working with Aisha will change your life. I couldn't recommend working with her more."

"I used to feel worthless and undeserving of love. I also used to feel super anxious and would freeze with fear in the presence of a beautiful woman. After working with Aisha, I have learnt to give myself more care and self love through being thankful for what I do have. I feel like I am more capable of feeling vulnerable and expressing my desires."

"Meeting Aisha and our work together was a highlight of the year for me, starting at an erotic life drawing class in the summer. I’d felt a strong pull to take part even though it was completely out of my comfort zone and I found the experience empowering, liberating and life changing.

I have gone from someone who previously hated their body to now life modelling on a regular basis and the confidence to do so is down to the intimate and safe space Aisha held in that time. I now have the pictures framed on my bedroom wall and use the feelings of admiration for my body as a reminder of the positivity and strength of love I am capable of feeling for myself. After this initial meeting I followed Aisha’s’ social media and shortly realised I needed to invest in 1-2-1 coaching with her.

I wanted to open myself up more to touch and play as these were elements of my life that had been sorely missed for a number of years.

We worked both online and in person I found each session deeply moving and helpful, with nuggets of wisdom I will carry and remind myself of for years to come. I have worked with a great number of therapists in different forms over the years and as much as many quote themselves as holding “non judgemental space”, Aisha is the only one I (and my body) have felt that to be 100% true with. I feel this is what brings greatest value to the experience of working with her as it is a incredibly rare quality and skill."